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An abusive man:
- shouts
- sulks
- smashes things
- glares
- calls you names
- makes you feel ugly and useless
- cuts you off from your friends
- stops you working
- never admits he is wrong
- blames you, drugs, drink, stress etc.
- turns the children against you
- uses the children to control you
- never does his share of the housework
- never looks after the children
- expects sex on demand
- controls the money
- threatens or wheedles you to get his own way
- seduces your friends/sister/anyone
- expects you to be responsible for his well-being
A non-abusive man:
- is cheerful
- consistent
- supportive
- tells you you look good
- tells you you’re competent
- uses your name
- trusts you
- trusts your judgment
- welcomes your friends and family
- encourages you to be independent
- supports your learning, career etc.
- admits to being wrong
- is a responsible parent
- is an equal parent
- does his share of the housework
